Choosing the right senior living community for your mom is a big decision. You want her to be happy, safe, and well-cared for. That’s where senior living advisors come in. They are like friendly guides who help you find the best place for your mom.
According to America’s Health Ranking, by 2040, older adults will comprise 22% of the U.S. population. This means more people will need good senior care. With so many choices in Bellevue and Seattle, it can feel overwhelming. You might wonder, “How do I start?” or “What if I choose the wrong place?” These worries are normal, and we are here to help you through this process.
But what should you ask a senior living advisor? Here are some important questions to help you find the best advisor and the best home for your mom.
Questions About the Advisors and Their Services
- How long have you been helping families find senior living, and what are your qualifications? You want someone who knows what they’re doing and has lots of experience, like Tibi, who has over 25 years of experience in senior living and healthcare. It’s also important to know if they have any special training or certifications.
- Do you know the areas we’re interested in? Someone who knows the neighborhoods can tell you about the different places and what makes them special. For example, if you’re interested in Bellevue, they should know about the different communities and what they offer, like The Bellettini or The Gardens at Town Square.
- How do you find the right place for each person? It’s important to know how they work so you can see if they’re a good fit for your family. Do they take the time to get to know your mom and her needs, like Tibi did when he met with Avi’s mom for over two hours?
- Do you help with other things, like moving? Some advisors can help with more than just finding a place. They might help with the paperwork, moving arrangements, or even just be there to offer support during this emotional time.
- Do you charge for your help? Most advisors help for free, but it’s good to ask just in case. You don’t want any surprises later on.
Questions About Senior Living Communities
- What kinds of places are there in Bellevue and Seattle? There are different types of places, each with different levels of care and services. Some are like apartments for seniors who can do things on their own, while others are for people who need help with everyday tasks. There are also special places for people with memory problems. Knowing the different types will help you understand what might be the best fit for your mom.
- What’s the difference between those different places? Some places, like independent living communities, are for active seniors who want to live around other people their age and enjoy amenities like swimming pools and fitness centers. Assisted living is for those who need a little help with daily tasks, while memory care is specifically designed for people with Alzheimer’s or dementia. Adult family homes offer a smaller, more home-like setting, and skilled nursing facilities provide 24/7 medical care.
- Can you suggest places that are good for people with certain health problems, like memory loss? If your mom has specific needs, like memory loss or mobility issues, you want to find a place that specializes in caring for people with those conditions. Ask the advisor about communities that have experience and expertise in these areas.
- How much do these places usually cost? It’s important to know how much it will cost so you can plan. Costs can vary depending on the type of community, the level of care needed, and the location. Ask the advisor for a range of costs and what’s included in the fees.
- What are the rules about signing up and paying? You want to understand everything before you make a decision. Ask about contract terms, refund policies, and any additional fees that might come up. Some communities require a large upfront payment, while others have monthly fees. Make sure you understand the financial commitment before you choose a place for your mom.
Questions About Specific Communities
- How many helpers are there for each person living there? More helpers usually means your mom will get more attention. You can ask, “What’s the staff-to-resident ratio?” This means how many staff members are there for each resident. A lower number is better, as it means more personalized care for your mom.
- What kind of fun things do they do there? You want your mom to have fun and make friends! Ask about the activities calendar. Do they have things your mom enjoys, like bingo, exercise classes, or outings? Maybe your mom would like to join a book club or a gardening group.
- What kind of food do they have? Is it yummy and healthy? Can they make special food if your mom needs it? You can ask to see a sample menu and find out if they can accommodate dietary restrictions or preferences. Maybe your mom needs a special diet, or maybe she just wants to make sure the food is delicious!
- Can I visit my mom whenever I want? You want to be able to see your mom and spend time with her. Ask about visiting hours and if there are any restrictions. Some places have open visiting hours, while others might have specific times.
- Can you give me names of other families you’ve helped? Talking to other families can help you learn more about the advisor and the places they suggest. It’s like getting advice from other moms who have been through the same thing. You can ask for references or testimonials from families who have used the advisor’s services and are happy with the community they chose.
- What makes this place special? Each senior living community has something unique to offer. Maybe it’s the beautiful gardens, the friendly staff, or the special activities they have. Ask the advisor what sets this place apart from the others.
- What if my mom doesn’t like it there? It’s important to know what happens if your mom isn’t happy in the community. Ask about trial stays or refund policies, so you have peace of mind knowing you have options.z
Questions About the Transition Process
- What do we need to do to move Mom in? It’s good to know the steps so you can be prepared. Ask the advisor to walk you through the process, from the initial application to the actual move-in day. They can help you understand what documents are needed, what deadlines to expect, and what to bring with you.
- How will you help my mom get used to her new home? It can be hard to move to a new place, so you want to know how they’ll help your mom feel comfortable. Ask about the community’s orientation process for new residents and what kind of support they offer to help seniors adjust.
- Can my mom stay for a short time to see if she likes it? Some places let you try it out before you decide. This is called a “respite stay” or “trial stay.” It’s a great way for your mom to experience the community firsthand and see if it’s a good fit for her.
- What happens if there’s an emergency? You want to know that your mom will be safe and taken care of. Ask about the community’s emergency procedures, how they handle medical emergencies, and what kind of communication you can expect in case of an incident.
- What if my mom’s needs change in the future? It’s important to know if the community can accommodate changes in your mom’s care needs. Ask about their policies on transitioning to different levels of care within the community or to other facilities if necessary.
- How does the community communicate with families? You’ll want to stay informed about your mom’s well-being. Ask how often you can expect updates, how they communicate with families (e.g., phone calls, emails, newsletters), and if there are opportunities for family involvement in the community.
A1 Senior Care Advisors: Your Trusted Partner
At A1 Senior Care Advisors, we know that finding the right senior living community can be a lot to handle. That’s why we’re here to help you every step of the way. Our advisors are friendly and know a lot about senior care in Bellevue and Seattle. We’ve helped hundreds of families just like yours find the perfect place for their moms, and we’re confident we can do the same for you.
We understand that every mom is unique, and so are the needs of their families. Our experienced advisors will take the time to listen to your concerns, answer your questions, and provide personalized guidance based on your mom’s specific needs and preferences. We’ll work closely with you to understand your mom’s personality, lifestyle, and care requirements.
As one daughter shared, “Tibi was extremely helpful in navigating a very difficult time for my parents, and family. Tibi was very prompt with getting my dad into care. He is extremely responsive and will get back to you any time of the day.” (Jacqueline P.) We strive to provide that same level of support and responsiveness to all of our clients.
We’re not just experts in senior care; we’re also experts in the local communities. We know the ins and outs of Bellevue and Seattle, and we can help you find a community that fits your mom’s lifestyle and preferences. Whether she prefers a bustling city environment or a quiet suburban setting, we can help you find the perfect place where she’ll feel at home.
Our services are completely free, and we’re committed to making this process as easy and stress-free as possible for you. We’ll handle the research, the phone calls, and the paperwork, so you can focus on what’s most important: your mom. We’ll be your partner, your guide, and your friend throughout this journey.
If you’re ready to start exploring senior care options in Bellevue or Seattle, we invite you to contact us today for a free consultation. We’re here to help you find the perfect place for your mom, so you can both be happy.
